Charlie is eleven. He lives in Croydon, and loves playing computer games with his siblings. He wishes for a Nintendo Switch console to help him cope with his condition.
Please see below a Tweet from Charlie's mum, a fully update on his wish to follow:
Charlie is fiercely independent and very active. He's been diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder, oppositional defiant disorder and ADHD, which for Charlie means he sometimes struggles in social situations and can feel overwhelmed and anxious. He is verbal but his autism can cause him to find talking distressing.
A tough journey
In March 2018, Charlie found a lump on his back. Doctors diagnosed a very rare cancerous tumour which was putting pressure on his spine. Because of the location, he was at very high risk and needed surgery straight away, followed by chemotherapy and radiotherapy.
Afterwards, there was almost nothing left of his body to protect his spine and Charlie’s skin broke down and became infected. He needed more major surgery and had to wear a big cast round his tummy. Now, he is learning to walk all over again, while he waits for an MRI scan to find out whether or not he's cancer-free.
Charlie’s mum, Sarah, says:
“He’s so close to ringing the end-of-treatment bell. He will have hospital appointments until he is five years cancer-free, but I’ve always known about Make-A-Wish and he deserves a treat to mark the end of his treatment.
Bringing back his cheekiness
Charlie has been too poorly to choose his wish until now. It’s been so hard for him to lose his independence. He wanted to understand every aspect of his treatment and didn’t like being treated like he wasn’t there. His recovery has been slow, mentally and physically, we’ve just had to accept that, and we’re slowly working towards getting his confidence back. He is bringing back his cheekiness.
My little charmer
We’re hopeful that Charlie will regain his ability to walk normally again eventually, but we’re also prepared for him not fully recovering. We have no definite answers.
Through everything, Charlie has been forced to mature, and that’s a big problem with children diagnosed with cancer. On a good day he would have everyone in the hospital in stitches. Charlie has been so brave and courageous. He has kept smiling and that makes me proud, even when he was feeling horrendous from the chemo. When he smiles, it helps us all. He is my little charmer.
Something to treasure
We have to travel all over London for his appointments, so Charlie is so excited that his Nintendo Switch will be portable, with all his favourite games to keep him distracted from all the aches, pain, discomfort and disturbance that he deals with. He knows we can’t afford to buy him one ourselves, so its going to make him so happy. It’s something for him that he doesn’t have to share.
Thanks to your generosity, Charlie's wish has now been granted..